I came across this from Elizabeth Lesser’s blog. She inspires me with her realness and authenticity. I wanted to share this with you, in hopes you let go of “being perfect” and having to make everything perfect for your Christmas season. I share Elizabeth’s words with you and just maybe it will help you let go of some of the season’s stress and give you a moment of peace. Whatever your Christmas will be, I hope it is with your whole heart. Love Sue
“Most of the people I know (myself included) will barely pull off a Christmas tree and a chaotic family gathering. Life is busy and the times are stressful, so if you want to experience the real meaning and magic of the holidays, let’s start by unburdening ourselves of impossible expectations. The most effective thing you can do to have your own happy holiday is to wipe the word “normal” from your vocabulary.
In my work and travels I have met thousands of people from all walks of life. I have yet to meet a normal one, if normal means consistently sane, contented, and capable. And yet most of us hold ourselves up to an unattainable standard of human perfection. The 12th century poet Rumi called this phenomenon, the “Open Secret.” He said each one of us is trying to hide the same secret from each other—not some racy or evil secret, but rather the mere fact of our flawed humanness. We expend so much energy trying to conceal our ordinary bewilderment at being human, or our loneliness in the crowd, or that nagging sense that everyone else has it more together than we do, that we miss out on the chance to really connect, which is what we ultimately long for—especially during the holidays.” Elizabeth Lesser